This article begins with an erotic practice for increasing a man's pleasure using acupressure, whether performed - by a woman or another man. You will learn five sets of arousal points for men. All of these points are used in an acupressure Arousal Routine for Men at the end of the article.

Partners should first practice these techniques without the expectation of sexual excitement. Try them again at some other time for making love. To begin, the man lies on his back with his legs spread, his penis hanging downward. Kneel between his upper thighs.

1. Place the heels of your hands on the creases where your part ner's legs join the trunk of his body, applying palm pressure. Let your fingers comfortably rest on his belly and place your thumbs over his pubic bone. Ask him to breathe slowly and deeply with you for a couple of minutes as you lean the weight of your chest over your hands. Encourage him to take long deep breaths into his belly, as if he were breathing into the pressure of your hands.


2. Place your partner's penis on his lower abdominal area, the head of it facing his navel. This works whether the penis is big or small, soft or hard. Men often enjoy having their penis pressed up against their belly. This upright position is similar to an erection, exposing the most vulnerable, sensitive side of the penis.

Massage your partner's groin area. Then, rotate your fingers in toward each other, gradually placing your thumbs and index and middle fingers firmly over the penis. As you slowly lean your chest over your hands, the base of your thumbs and the heels of your hands will apply pressure to St 30, just beside the penis at the tip of the pubic bone. This point increases a man's genital sensitivity and thus heightens his sexual pleasure. When stimulating a man, be sure to include the testicles and scrotum. Most men love having their testicles caressed and felt.

Establish eye contact with your partner, expressing your intimate feelings and love through your gaze. Encourage him to breathe deeply into the pressure, as if he were breathing into his penis. The slower and deeper he breathes, the more feeling he will have. Invite your partner to slowly move his pelvis up and down, breathing deeply into the stimulation as you hold him.

3. Lightly stroke the hair surrounding his anus and scrotum. Slowly caress him, starting from his anus up through the scrotum and the length of his penis. Barely touching the skin, tantalize every square inch between his legs while you continue to gaze into each other's eyes.
   
   
4. Place the fingertips of one hand on the point midway between the anus and the scrotum (CV1). Rub in that area, and find a ropy cord there. Press firmly on that cord using your index, middle, and ring fingertips. Hold this point as the palm of your other hand rolls the penis from side to side over his pubic bone and belly. Gradually increase the speed of the rolling motion as your partner continues to breathe deeply into his belly.
   
   
5. Slowly but firmly move your hand up and down the length of the penis, creating friction on the exposed sensitive side. (You may wish to use a natural lubricant for additional pleasure.) As your partner breathes deeper and faster, increase the speed. Discovering the most erotic ways to treat your lover's main pleasure organ can be an exciting adventure.
   
   
6. If you and your partner both desire to have intercourse, slip his penis inside you. Place the heels of your hands above his pubic bone, and gradually lean some of your weight into his lower abdominal area, pressing the Sea of Intimacy points (CV 2-CV 6) to increase his sexual pleasure. Breathe deeply, and move in sync with him as you maintain eye contact and enjoy the warmth generated from your bodies.

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